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The Power of Self-Validation: A Christian Woman's Guide



 In the busy world we live in today, it's easy to lose ourselves in the expectations and judgments of others. As Christian women, we often find ourselves striving for external validation, but have we ever stopped to consider the importance of self-validation? In this post, we'll explore the significance of validating ourselves, backed by scripture, and how to cultivate a mindset that leads to genuine self-validation.


Understanding Self-Validation: Self-validation is the act of recognizing your worth, value, and identity independently of external opinions or circumstances. It's a concept deeply rooted in the Christian faith, reminding us that God's validation should be our primary source of assurance.

Scripture Evidence:

  1. Psalm 139:14 (NIV): "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well." This verse reminds us that God created us with unique qualities, making us worthy of self-validation.

  2. Galatians 1:10 (NIV): "Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ." Here, the apostle Paul highlights the futility of seeking validation from people rather than God.

The Importance of Self-Validation:

  1. Freedom from External Pressure: Self-validation frees us from the need to conform to others' expectations. When we validate ourselves through God's perspective, we become immune to societal pressures and remain true to our beliefs.

  2. Greater Resilience: It empowers us to face adversity with confidence. By acknowledging our worth, we can withstand challenges, knowing that our value isn't contingent on the outcomes.

  3. A Healthy Self-Image: Self-validation fosters a positive self-image, as it allows us to appreciate our unique qualities and accept ourselves with love and grace.

Cultivating a Mindset for Self-Validation:

  1. Daily Devotion: Start your day with prayer and meditation on God's word. Seek His guidance and align your self-perception with His view of you.

  2. Positive Affirmations: Speak affirmations that remind you of your worth and purpose. For example, "I am fearfully and wonderfully made in God's image."

  3. Surround Yourself with Supportive People: Build relationships with individuals who encourage your faith and self-validation. Iron sharpens iron, and godly friendships can strengthen your belief in your worth.

  4. Practice Self-Care: Caring for your physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being is an act of self-validation. It demonstrates that you value and honor the temple of the Holy Spirit.

 Self-validation is not a selfish act; it's a reflection of our trust in God's design. As Christian women, embracing self-validation allows us to live with purpose, strength, and resilience. With a renewed mindset, rooted in scripture and God's love, we can boldly affirm our worth and walk in the light of His truth. Remember, you are fearfully and wonderfully made; embrace the power of self-validation.


Let's validate ourselves through God's eyes, and in doing so, we'll find the freedom and confidence to live out our Christian journey with grace and authenticity.


Well, folks, that's all I have for you today. Thanks for checking out I Said What I Said Ministries. If you didn't know, this is a ministry, just not your typical churchy type. See you soon on next month's blog!


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